Articles tagged with helicopter parents

Fido goes off to college

Graduation season is in full swing right now. And after completing that rite of passage, former high school seniors will soon embark on another journey to college— though, increasingly they won’t have to make the journey alone.  

More and more universities are admitting students and their pets to campus, in hopes that it will ease the transition of leaving home.

Stephens College, a women’s college in Missouri, for instance, is renovating a dorm to accomodate an influx of students and their animal companions— mainly pooches and felines— even dubbing the dorm Pet Central.

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College President Dianne Lynch told the New York Times, she recognizes the trend is a byproduct of “helicopter parenting,” which for those of you unfamiliar with the term, are those parents who constantly hover over their children, ready to argue over—or for— a grade, a placement or position at a moment’s notice.

The negative upshot of such constant oversight, as many have argued, has been a lack of self-direction and indepence among their offspring, which as Lynch astutely points out, can be reflected in more students wishing to bring the family dog with them when they head off to college.
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Naomi Dillon|June 7th, 2010|Categories: Governance, Leading Source|Tags: , , , |

The parent trap

0208asbjcvrI had to chuckle at a newspaper article detailing how local colleges are handling an ever growing wave of so-called helicopter parents, which has become an ubiquitous descriptor of moms and dads, who just can’t seem to let go, hovering over their offspring long after they’ve reached adulthood.

Though, it’s not funny, I laughed for several reasons.

After spending a holiday weekend with family, I can tell you baby boomers are among the worst offenders of overly anxious and protective parenting.  Granted, this statement has no scientific data to support it, and I’m sure there are many middle-aged parents who are neither consumed nor interested in the daily activities or their adult son or daughter.

But I run across enough newspaper articles and hear more than a few stories to, at least, hint that the overly attached parent is a real and growing phenomenon. It’s one of the reasons, I wrote “Parent Trap” for ASBJ last February.

While educators understand the importance of parental involvement in schools, different parents require different approaches. The challenge with “helicopter parents,” isnt’ so much getting them involved but showing them, diplomatically, where their involvement is best needed— and not.
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Naomi Dillon|November 30th, 2009|Categories: Leading Source, Student Achievement|Tags: , |
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